Thank you very much for writing this! It's very well formulated and expressed. I especially liked
> Unfortunately, it's very difficult to convince suffering patients that they have some control over their situation without also implying personal blame for their problems
I also see it as a big part of the problem, that it's difficult to convince people that they do have control over their lives. In many psychotherapy books, when therapists describe various cases, this is a corner stone of a therapy success: a patient understanding that they do have control over their situation. That it's not the outer world that is so demanding that it leaves them no choice, but them choosing to cope in a particular way, and that there are other ways to react and cope.
> Unfortunately, it's very difficult to convince suffering patients that they have some control over their situation without also implying personal blame for their problems
I also see it as a big part of the problem, that it's difficult to convince people that they do have control over their lives. In many psychotherapy books, when therapists describe various cases, this is a corner stone of a therapy success: a patient understanding that they do have control over their situation. That it's not the outer world that is so demanding that it leaves them no choice, but them choosing to cope in a particular way, and that there are other ways to react and cope.