>We use Avalonia for our Product and honestly couldn’t be happier.
What do you mean "couldn't be happier"? Start-up times and memory consumption are objectively bad. Also something someone else already mentioned in here: font rendering just feels really off.
>On desktop (Apple M2) it pretty much feels instant to me.
Why are you lying? It's not quick, let alone "pretty much instant". Neither on my M3 nor on my gaming machine. Actually I think Avalonia's start-up time is the worst out of all GUI frameworks I've used so far, including Electron.
We use Avalonia for our Product and honestly couldn’t be happier.