I drive a classic car in NYC and have 100% patience and 0% frustration. Meanwhile I cant keep a job at a big corpo because of my frustrated rebellious behavior. So yeah, awful framing.
That phrase resonated with me. Do you not get burnout when you spend too much time in a busy city? God forbid you'd have to navigate one 8-5 every weekday.
It's important to realize that busy cities (and large organizations) are the way they are because many people can tolerate them and some people thrive in them. (Nothing wrong with deciding you personally can't, or just that you don't want to.)
Did you know that some people actually choose to live in cities?
Personally I can’t wrap my head around the continuous boredom of living in rural areas or suburbia, where anything interesting is an hour or more of wasted life in a round-trip car ride. Even fetching groceries is a half hour there and back instead of a few minute walk. Crazy!
Different people have different norms, different preferences, and are acclimated to different environments.
Most people learn it once and then they go around the city largely on autopilot. Some stress is there but more manageable. Doing on autopilot is not possible in large orgs, or if it's possible it's prone to make you feel unfulfilled instead of burned out.
Such insidious reframing with absolutely no mention of burnout possibility. Yuck.